In the email following THE CALL, our caseworker sent us ALL of T's paperwork that she reviewed with us over the phone, all of her pictures (5), the "Transition Plan" to begin working on, and a sweet congratulatory message =) The rest of the "Referral Packet" would be overnighted to us. We also forwarded all of the information we had to the International Pediatrician to review, but the earliest we could get a phone appointment was the next night.
Fortunately, a very kind friend sent us the "Transition Plan" paperwork ahead of time. That is a 15 page packet that asks you questions about your plan on transitioning your new little one into your family, as well as transitioning your existing family for the new arrival. It was helpful to compile our lists of resources to help with that transition in advance so that we could really put some thought into it, rather than rushing to get it back out the door to AGCI. A lot of the questions were really a review of our required adoption education we did at the beginning of our journey...but it was great to test our knowledge =) For the most part we had that portion of the paperwork complete...although there were some questions pertaining to T's story that we couldn't answer before knowing of her. It took another 20 minutes or so to complete...so we got to spend the rest of the day squealing on the phone to everyone we know!
The next morning, I awoke with a huge GRIN on my face and whispered in my husband's ear, we have a daughter!!! I heard him smile...you know what I'm talking about! =) After I got up and made breakfast for Monkey I decided to give Brittany a call (who got her referral the Friday before us). She knew we had received the call, but I was excited to share more of our story and talk about the "what comes next" stuff with someone who knows and gets it. She told me that her referral packet had arrived at 10:30am the next morning! I was shocked to know it arrived that soon and smiled when I saw it was already 10:00am! I crossed my fingers and hoped ours would arrive that quickly as well. We continued chatting and she walked me through what some of the paperwork entailed and AS I was on the phone with her, I got a knock on my door - it was the REFERRAL PACKET!! Ahh!!! You know you're talking to someone who GETS IT when the moment you think, I better get off the phone, she said "I'll let you go so you can get working on that paperwork!" =D Britt, you're the BEST!
We were scheduled to have our call with AGCI's family coordinator at 11:30am....but there was a miscommunication so it was rescheduled for later in the day. After a quick lunch we decided to head to church to have our FABULOUS notary help us out with this paperwork! Joyce was thrilled to help...and I don't know if this was TIMED...but all the pastors and staff ended up walking in from lunch right when we were there, all anxious to hand out hugs and get a glimpse at our baby! Not like we had an issue with that! ;) After an entire day of emailing pictures to friends and family, it was a JOY to show her off in person (I can only imagine how amazing it will be to have her in my ARMS and showing her off)!!!!!
Monkey spent his time at the church being a complete goof - attemping to walk up and down the stairs (we have a one level home...so he's a bit slow in this one =) and crawling underneath furniture. At one point, Pastor Bob came out and played peek-a-boo with him. Aww...it was the most PRECIOUS thing to see PB down on his hands and knees making my Lil Man GIGGLE away as he peeked and boo-ed around the corner.....music to my EARS I tell ya....but I was a SECOND too late with the camera, shucks!!!
After about an hour of notarizing (and a mini meltdown on my part for putting the wrong date on a doc - remember the dossier? That would have been a big NO-NO...but Toni, another caseworker at AGCI, assured me it would be fine since this was JUST for AGCI and not Ethiopia =) we headed home for our call with Mindy (AGCI's family coordinator). She was so sweet to talk to and presented us with some really great information to help transition T into our family. Again, most of it was review...but it was great to have a real person to bounce ideas off of and ask questions!
After that I think we talked to K with a few more questions (she has been SO great during this part of the process - I can't say enough great things about AGCI...they have been supportive in EVERY WAY!) and then attempted to get a hold of our social worker. I left a
Hubby and Monkey had some MAJOR playtime...then, as my husband went back to work, I waited as patiently as possible for 8:30pm to roll around when our International Pediatrician would call us to go over T's medical history. It seemed like a long afternoon...but I still had a lot of people to call! I tried to keep that to Monkey's nap times and PLAY while he was awake (remember, the poor boy felt a little starved of attention from the day before).
When 8:30pm finally rolled around we were thrilled that our International Pediatrician really had nothing but AMAZING things to say about our little T! He definitely addressed her malnourishment as an issue, but hearing that she loved her bottles he was really optimistic (as are we)! He encouraged us that Hannah's Hope is the BEST place she can be and that their caregiver/children ratio is one of the BEST he's ever soon - how amazing is that?!? So yes, we got a clear GO AHEAD from him! He shot me an email with a quick review of our conversation and I typed it into a word document to email over to K early the next morning.
So on Wednesday I got a call in the morning from K, just as a follow-up about our International Pediatrician appointment....and Thursday she had received the last document from our social worker and everything was official!!! From then on, every document we have received has had T's first name and our last name - it is truly a beautiful site! =)
Well...there's a glimpse into our hectic, blessed life! It was truly amazing to get this INCREDIBLE gift between our two birthdays - what could be a better gift?!?
***Now to keep the "Congratulations" rolling...head on over to my friend Kari's blog and wish them a HUGE Congrats on the birth AND finalized adoption of their son Westyn!!!!! Woohoo!!!! We're SOO excited for you guys - and just in AWE that God brought these two life-changing events into our lives within two weeks of each other! Can't wait to get our kiddos together and relish over God's blessings through our adoption journeys! Praying for safe travels home and a smooth transition to a family of THREE!